In our modern prisons and schools, too, the final response to bad behavior often entails forced solitude and ostracism, in the form of solitary confinement or a trip to the principal’s office.
It may not be surprising, then, that I had mixed feelings about the idea of spending 10 days in solitude secluded from the modern world in a hermitage. Both of those words are open to misinterpretation, so let me clarify.
Horan is a Franciscan friar who serves on the board of directors of the International Thomas Merton Society and has published dozens of articles.
Horan has created a "Dating God" blog, and he speaks to young adult audiences throughout the United States.
He has previously taught in the Department of Religious Studies at Siena College and the Department of Theology at St.
Dan has lectured, directed retreats, and led workshops around the United States and in Europe.
The author is convinced that the heart of gospel life is relationship. ” It is no wonder that solitude is a scary experience when, from one’s earliest years, time alone or “time out” was a common consequence of childhood shenanigans.Time out, however, was nothing compared with the dreaded “being grounded,” which not only required solitude but also limited one’s use of the Internet, telephone and television.It feels so dang good to be around friendly people and bright blue skies and light so pure it hurts my eyes a little. Surrounded by wildflowers and evergreens and blackberries and lush grasses and all sorts of viney whatnot we'll get to know soon. And now it's time to go back to creating and building and pattern recognition and following the rhythms of my bodies as they dance with gaia and beyond. That I was living in a cage in that house, in that lifestyle, with those sorts of jobs and interactions. We're snuggled safe in a holler, on the southern side of a mountain, tons of light streaming in through the dozens of huge windows. I keep looking around and thinking: how the heck did we get here? And within three months the house had been prepped and sold, we'd found this miraculous place that is every single thing I'd envisioned, and had crossed the state lines into Tennessee, Durham just a memory now. I mention my relative youth because it directly affects my hermitage experience and future experiences of solitude.